Sunday, November 17, 2013

Sweetie

 Sweetie was given her name by a cat loving neighbor of mine.  She had been living on the streets of Gainesville, Ga. along with some other cats near a business in the industrial area.  The cats had been ridding the businesses of mice and rats which had become quite prolific.

This cat lover began to feed the cats as he has a soft heart for stray cats.  They became socialized somewhat by his kindness to them.  Someone complained about the many cats in the area so animal control came with traps and began taking some of them away.  When this little part Minx was taken in a trap, he determined to find a home for  this kitten.

After a medical examination,  needed shots and assurances that the cat had no diseases it was given over to him.  He had come to me the day before telling me what a sweet kitten this was and asked me to take her in until she could be socialized a bit and then keep  her outside, to help rid my premises of moles and voles known to be here.  He assured me he would come over and help socialize her, and he  did, bringing food for her and a kennel for her to stay in until she was ready for more freedom.  He also brought litter for her to use and pans and a warm bed. He already had two cats at his house and one of them will not tolerate any new cats coming in.

He was very adept at making the cat at home and getting it in a happy frame of mind.  I have held her but she is still not sure about my intentions.  She comes quickly enough when she sees me putting in her food.  Today I opened the door to give her fresh water and food and she took the opportunity to come into my house from the sun room where she was set up for the duration.

I let her stroll around and explore the large tile floor where many plants are set around in front of large windows.  After a while she had done enough exploring so she went back out into the sun room.  That is when I got a snapshot of her inside her  kennel.  The door is open so she can explore all she wants out there.  When she feels more comfortable with me and will come to me or allow me to come close to her, then I may bring her inside for short visits.

My ultimate goal is to have her set up outdoors as she has been living on the streets.  She will have to gain some weight, at least up to two pounds so she can be spayed.  Then she can be released outside and begin to establish her territory.

Some years ago this same neighbor came to me with two male kittens which had been born under a shed in his yard.  He had found homes for all of them except these two.  I have written about those two cats in an earlier story in this Blog.  One of the cats was named Spitfire as he really fit the name.  He had been traumatized while his eyes were still closed. He spit- hissed at me for a long time.   My neighbor would pick him up and he came each day to pet them.  Eventually they became quite tame and that is what we hope will happen with Sweetie.  I think cats can sense people who have a deep love for their kind.  I am rather ambivalent about cats.  I wish them no harm and I enjoy them as long as they are outdoors.

I think Sweetie is on her  way to living up to her name.  It took her one week to begin to actually play.  She was so frightened of all things and for one week she tried to make herself as small as possible to avoid attracting attention to herself.  But yesterday when I saw her actually making up play, pouncing,  jumping and leaping, I knew she had turned a corner and things were progressing just as we had hoped.  She will not be one of those felines that populate the area, but she will become a good hunter and "terminator" of some of the annoying voles which like to destroy the plants I have outside.  So she is a welcome guest and I look forward to the day that she scores her first hit and brings it to share with me.
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Sunday, November 10, 2013

Stories of My Father

 Recently one of my nieces asked me to write about my father.  She was very young when he died and she had no memories of him.  In the picture to the right he was probably around the age of twenty six. 

Before this photo was made he went to live in Nebraska for his health.  He had been diagnosed with a lung ailment, I believe it was tuberculosis.  That was a common illness around the turn of the 20th century and was called "Consumption".

He was born in Upton Kentucky on January 11, 1883, the youngest child of Jemima Stuart Matthis and Charles Wesley Matthis I.  As a young boy he had a job as a paper carrier.  He had to get up early in the morning to meet the train as it came through the little town.  The train did not  stop, but someone pitched the newspapers out of the side of the train.  I am pretty sure that one of those papers was taken to his own home for his father, who was a well educated man, and always subscribed to a newspaper. His father was known as "Professor" and taught, Greek, Latin and Higher Mathematics.  He had some students living in his home and although I do not know exactly how it all worked out, he did help to establish Gilead Baptist College near Elizabethtown, Kentucky.  On a Genealogy hunt we found what was left of this college.  It was a church and we found the tombstones of one of his brothers who died in infancy and also one of  Barbara Matthis, his sister.   She died from lockjaw after stepping on a rusty nail.  Jemima grieved for this little girl for the rest of her life.

My father did not formally attend the Gilead college, he said that he would sometimes help his father by tutoring some of his students.  Chester had a knack for numbers and could add four column numbers by going up the column and adding four to the four before.  He did this before the adding machine was in use.  I remember as a little girl seeing him use the adding machine and remember him putting in numbers then pulling down a "handle" as he went along.  He earned his living as a bookkeeper for a coal company in south eastern Kentucky.  He also handled any tax accounting that was needed.  His office was on the second floor of a building which had other offices on the second floor. Underneath on the first floor was the post office and the commissary where goods could be purchased using  "script".  Script was the coins that replace actual money.  It does not sound quite legal to me now, but the coal miners had to exchange money for script to be used in the commissary.

My oldest sister taught school on a hill near the mines and I was her student there for the first and second grade.  One thing I remember about the school was that the floors were actually oiled and then swept.  I suppose it kept down dust, but the school had a peculiar odor which came from the oil.  Many years later I too taught in that school.  I recall have a pair of shoes which had "crape" soles and the oil caused the soles to disintegrate.  They were very comfortable to wear but did not last long on those floors.  The school had a bathroom for both girls and boys but those mountain children did not know how to properly use indoor plumbing and it was always out of order.  Away from the school, at a decent distance was an "outhouse" for both teachers and children.  It all sounds so primitive now, and it was!  We had a playground for the children and the equipment consisted of swings only.  The children played a lot of games outdoors during recess.

To get back to stories about my father, some of the things I remember were at Christmas when my dad went all out seeing that my mother had some special gift.  One year he got a secretary for you.  It was made of cherry wood and that was a good gift for her as she had no desk but did a lot of writing and studying - mainly of the Bible.  On another Christmas he got her a new car, though she did not drive, nor did she ever learn to drive.

Both of my parents were heavily invested in their local church.  In the summers when they only had two teen age children- Gene and me), they took vacations at Montreat, N.C. in order to  hear visiting preachers.  One year they heard Peter Marshall and my mother especially was impressed by his descriptions of a sunset.  He said it was baby bottom pink.

When the older children were still at home they took a cabin at Lake Herrington in central Kentucky and though it was not much of a vacation for my mother, my father enjoyed fishing.  The other members of the family enjoyed the lake and I loved being in the pool.  It was a fenced in area in the lake with a wooden walkway on the sides.  There was a slide which I used to learn to swim.  My father would stand in the water and catch me as I came down the slide.  We were usually there for two weeks.  I remember one Sunday I had a terrible sunburn on my shoulders.  I was around ten and could not wear anything on my shoulders due to the blisters. My father wanted his Sunday paper, so I was selected to go to the little store nearby and buy a paper for him. I protested as I thought it was immodest for me to go up in only my underwear.  My mother assured me that it was perfectly all right as I was such a little girl.  I had to go anyway, for my dad had to have his Sunday paper.  I do not remember why one of my brothers was not enlisted for this chore.

As a little boy my father always wanted a red wagon, but he never had one.  Teachers were not financially compensated commensurate with their abilities or efforts.  So a red wagon was not in the family budget.  My father was always very generous with his children and with my mother as well. I recall him telling about how his own father would buy oysters for himself but never offered them to anyone else.  My dad said he always wondered what oysters tasted like.

My father did play baseball when he was a young man.  He always enjoyed listening to baseball on the radio, and I remember seeing him stretched out on the bed for a mid day rest with the radio on and a ball game being described play by play.  That was when I was in my twenties so he never lost his interest in the game.

My father was an elder in the Presbyterian Church in Harlan.  It was on Clover street and when I was big enough to sit in a chair my mother had me in her class.  She was also superintendent of the Sunday School. I have a certificate signed by her, promoting me to the four year old class. 

Communion was a solemn  sacrament and I remember my father serving communion, carrying the silver tray with a silver top full of holes and in each hole was a small glass with "grape juice" in it to serve as wine.  I do not know how they serve communion there now, but in my present church we take communion by intinction , walking up to the altar, as is done in Catholic churches.

I recall one Sunday when our whole family was trying to get ready for S.S. and church.  We only had one bathroom and my brother and I were fighting about who got it next.  My father could not abide quarreling so he entered the hallway with his belt in hand and that ended the quarreling.  We knew that we had to settle differences peacefully but his actions served as a reminder.

With a house full of kids ( 8 ), peace and quiet was a necessity for adults.  On Sundays after church we came home and while our mother got the Sunday roast on the table ( it had been cooking in her drip drop roaster) we would read the Sunday funnies as my dad read the rest of the paper.  After lunch and a rest for my parents, we all got in the car for a Sunday afternoon drive.  Somewhere along the way my dad would stop at a road side store and buy drinks for us all.  I always wanted orange crush.  As we grew older, we had other activities involving our friends on a Sunday afternoon. And my parents liked to play a card game called Rook.  Often they would play with my older brothers and it was played for blood.  Once when a game was in full swing a knock came at the front door.  When they saw it was the preacher out there, that card table disappeared like magic.  They saw no harm in playing Rook on a Sunday but I suppose they knew the preacher would not agree, so the fun for the day was over.

I will resume stories of my father at a later time.  There is much more to tell.


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Tuesday, November 5, 2013

The White Horse

Jim Gallow loved horses.  He liked to ride them and feed them and even took Bonnie with him on their first date to ride horses at Stone Mountain Park in Georgia.  Since he loved horses he thought Bonnie would too.  She endured a ride on a gentle one but never let him know it was not her thing.  She probably was fearful because she had not been properly introduced to them.

Jim and Bonnie both enjoyed photography and belong to a photo club.  They went on several out of state photo trips with their group.  Some of their photo shoots were local.  It was on such a trip that Jim took a picture of a white horse.  He did some work on the photo to get the shadows he liked and  when I first saw it, I just fell in love with it.  I like black and white photos and this one just spoke to me in a special way.  I even wrote a poem about it as I could feel his personality in the look in his eye and the general appearance of this large gentle animal.

My doctor likes horses too and has several of them on her ranch.   She enjoys riding them and it is a   relaxing time for her.  For a long time I had wanted to have this photo framed to give to her, for she had met Jim but I doubt they discussed horses, as they met on a visit I had made to her office.

Today I finally accomplished my plan to give her a picture of this noble beast all framed and ready to place on her wall, in her home or in her office.  Below is the poem that I wrote about this picture around three years ago.

Mysterious Figure


You live in black and white
My eyes are drawn to you

Solid, strong, keeping guard
Eying the situation

Guarding my attention
Keeping me in your sights

Your strength is evident
In your very stance

Your fine mane flying
In the breeze of life

The light of your truth and purity
Highlights your character

You are permanently in my soul
Can you possible know

That I treasure you?

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Tuesday, October 22, 2013

A Reason to Celebrate


On October 12, 2013 our family was able to celebrate the wedding of Elizabeth Ferry and Bruce Parsons. It has been a while since we all gathered for such
a happy event.

Many friends and family from all around the United States honored them with their presence, and to support them in this new phase of their lives.

The wedding party included Elizabeth's family of brothers, sisters, and professional colleagues, Bruce's sister, mother, his two sons and scores of friends from high school and college.

A close friend of Elizabeth, the Chaplin at Emory hospital in Atlanta, conducted the
ceremony in the chapel of the Academy of Medicine.

Bruce's son Grant was the ring bearer and his son Reed read selected Biblical scriptures about the true meaning of love.  Following the ceremony and the cutting of the cake, the groom's life long friend gave the toast and told us about what his sleuthing had uncovered, regarding how Elizabeth knew that Bruce was the one for her.  It seems that early in their courtship she asked him if he wanted to go shopping with her on a Friday evening, to purchase patio furniture.  He said yes, and, as she said, "he showed up".  Everyone chuckled at this information and felt it was evidence enough that Bruce would be a dedicated husband.

Dancing, dining and spirited conversation was holding sway until the bride and groom made their exit out the entrance and down the wide front stairway.  On both sides friends held up sparklers as gathering darkness signaled that the evening was coming to a close.

We all wish Bruce and Elizabeth a long and happy life together.

  
All photos courtesy of Mike Morrell





Friday, October 18, 2013

Ageratum


In the mid 1980's I brought some Liriope up to the lake house from my home in Decatur Georgia.  I did not realize it at the time but I also brought the beginning of a whole new generation of blue flowers which have spread over several acres taking hold where they pleased, and the mower did not get them. 

I have no idea how this blue plant, Ageratum, happened to make it's way up here in the clumps of Liriope which I planted as a border, in the front of my home.  The first time I noticed them was when they popped up in the Liriope the next spring. I did not even know about this plant.  I had seen smaller versions of it in Nurseries, but had never seen it growing in other places. 

At first I tried to get rid of it, not by spraying herbicides on it, but by digging it up.  I learned pretty soon  that the web of interlaced roots had no intention of leaving their chosen spot.  Therefore, I just let them do what they pleased.  What they pleased to do was find new places where they would send their seeds and start new colonies of Ageratum.  Every spring I found new places where they had chosen to take root.  This was brought home to me the other day as I was driving down our road toward my entrance when something blue caught my eye on the edge of the woods.  Yes, it was the same blue flower which has popped up on my hillside, the long driveway, down near my raised beds, and just this summer at the corner of my house near the drain pipe, as shown in the photo.

By the persistence of this plant I would guess it is classified as a weed, but not necessarily.  It is identified as Ageratum houstonianum.  It can be purchased in colors ranging from white to lavender-blue.  Seeds are sold for annuals and perennials as well.  It ranges in height from 6-8" and up to 18 inches.  I think you could call it the lazy gardener's plant.  It certainly does not require any help in propagation, or in thriving.  In fact it is hard to stop.   One type is called Hawaii White, common name "White weed", yet the seeds are sold along with the blue and other seeds.  So whether you call it a weed or a flower, is up to your attitude.  I am ambivalent on this point.  I like it as a flower but I would like it better if it would grow only in the woods or along the edge of the woods.  My attitude is that it is pretty and requires no help from me so I just let it be.

Wednesday, August 21, 2013

Baby deer and Baby Groundhogs

Seeing the young of wild animals is intriguing to me.  Early one morning last week as I sat having my breakfast, I noticed a movement outside my south windows.  Since I have many plants indoors and outdoors in that area I  stood up to be sure of what was moving.  It turned out to be the twin fawns and their mother had come back and come closer this time.  While the babies nibbled on the Hawthorn plants, the mother stood still and watched.  She was not eating as she was on duty to be sure her babies were safe.  She must have heard something from the west as she shifted her position and turned her head in that direction.  One of the fawns reacted by moving also, but went right back to munching.  Eventually they all began to move slowly away.  I stood still during all of this and just enjoyed seeing them.  Had they all been adults I may have tried to discourage them from dining so close to my house.  The urge to observe them made me more lenient this day.

Since the groundhog family seems to still be in my vineyard I am using the trap from the wildlife people to try to trap and relocate them.  My neighbor has been a big help in this endeavor.  The very day I brought the trap home and set it up and baited it with cantaloupe, he called to tell me he had taken the trap to a park and released this adult gopher.  The next day I reset the trap and put in strawberries, but in several days they had rotted and no gophers had appeared.  So, I switched to cantaloupe and the next morning he called to say he found a baby gopher in the trap.  He took it off to release it but had trouble getting it out of the  trap.  He said it had long fingers wrapped around the wires at the end of the trap and would not let go when he shook it.  He had to resort to using a stick to poke at him before he would release and run off.

The trap has been baited again with cantaloupe so we shall see what the day brings.  I feel sure that there were more than one baby in the tunnel.  We have had so much rain here in the south, that they may be holed up in their hole !!  They must sleep a lot as I only see them at certain times of the day, like mid morning and later in the day.  Of course this is a fairly large place and I cannot see everything that goes on here.

In front of my house in a flower bed I saw three yellow, swallow tail butterflies working the Lantana.  I think they have only a short time to feed, lay their eggs and disappear.  It is nice to see them  fluttering about.  The Pomeranians who visit here like to try to catch them, but never do.  They do exercise their lungs and legs when they see them outside.

I do have a soft heart for the young ones of any species.  I recently found a tiny salamander in a sticky trap by my front door.  The trap was there to capture scorpions if they got through the door.  It was too late to help the salamander.  If he had not been caught in the sticky tape he would probably have died of thirst indoors.  I have at times found them in some secluded spot where they have died and just dried up.  I think there are many more outside around the rock walls to take their place,  as I see them when I am out weeding.  My daughter saw a family of scorpions on the rock wall around the flower beds.  As long as they stay out there I have no objections, but indoors it is a problem.  I like to go barefoot indoors, especially at night.  Stepping on a scorpion is not a pleasant event.  So, baby or not, I really do not want them indoors.  It is only intriguing to watch wild animals when they are outdoors and I am indoors.

Thursday, August 15, 2013

Sharing Space with the Wild Animals

Recently I have come face to face with one of those great toothed tunneling critters called groundhogs.  This place is big enough to share the space with them, but I am not increasing in population and they are!  My neighbors are noticing them making tunnels under their homes, and in other places.  I had already engaged a Wildlife company to trap and remove them and they did trap five and take them away.  The first animal they trapped however, was a neighbors cat which was just too curious!  He was released to go to his own home and freedom.  The trapper eventually came and took the traps away and there was peace in my vineyard.

But sometimes a peace can be uneasy or short-lived.  In our case it was short-lived.  When I saw one of those  critters enjoying the healthy grass up near my new pecan tree, I knew that it was useless to ignore him.  That attitude only sets the scene for many more to come.  So, this time I called the Wildlife Management office in our county and asked for help.  Oh yes, they could help and told me to come over and they would loan a trap to me for two weeks.

I made the trip over to their office and when I entered the building I opened the door to be greeted to a baby black bear who had met with some kind of unfortunate situation, and was sent to the taxidermist.  He was firmly planted right inside of the door.  It is a bit startling at first as who expects to see a bear when you first open the door.  Bears are usually in cages not inside of buildings- even Wildlife building.  At least I knew I was in the right place! 

Walking on to the office I needed, I found two ladies hard at work talking on the phone to someone in north Georgia who had spied a black bear.  They wanted him taken away.  Settling that problem she turned to me and began to sign me up.  While I waited for her to go for the trap,  I saw a poster about snakes in Georgia.  I asked the second lady if they sold them.  She  explained that they were out of them right now.  I told her that I wanted them for my grandson who loves animals.  She said she had lots of other posters about wildlife and left the room to see what she did have on hand.

In the meantime the other lady came in with this huge trap and signed me up to take it out.  Then she proceeded to show me how to set the trap.  I had no confidence at all about being able to do it on my own.  I told her I had a mental block about such things but if I had trouble I could find someone to help me.

Then in came the poster lady loaded down with posters to thrill any animal loving young boy.  The snakes poster was not available but lots of other ones were.  Salamanders, Birds, Bats, and one on  Lake Ecosystem.  But there is more; the others were about mountain streams, endangered wild flowers, Georgia's Traveling Songbirds and Freshwater Biodiversity of the Upper Coosa River Basin.  In addition to the colorful labeled pictures, the backs of the posters were covered with information on understanding  them and ideas for learning more.  Wow, I had not expected to be the recipient of such interesting and informative posters.  My grandson will be delighted.  I am delighted as well.  These folks care about the wildlife and the ecosystem of our state and the world.

With a glow in my heart I headed home and promptly took the trap to where it could be found by the groundhogs living up  there.  I surprised myself by being able to set and bait the trap and cover it with branches to partly conceal  it.

I was even able to engage the help of a neighbor who will watch for any animals who appear in the traps and will release them into the wild, but far away from our houses.  A distance of five miles was recommended.

 I am never quite sure what turn my day will take.  Some days are just normally dull and routine and then  along comes one that is custom made for me, like this one today.  Never a dull moment sounds hollow and empty when I think of a day like today.